Tinks, I'm so sad for you. I had a spontaneous miscarriage recently at 14 weeks 3 days and lost our surprise but much wanted babies (because I was high risk I had decided to never have children, and after this happening certainly now won't have any).
Everyone was very kind and what happened to me was very quick comparitively as Bednobs said, but in itself it was not as much of an ordeal as I probably would have imagined it being physically at least and as I said everyone was very kind, so hopefully you will find it likewise. I can't imagine what you're going through knowing this is something you have to do in a couple of days, I was lucky not to have to do that, and the sadness must be overwhelming. Accept all the love people want to give you, and for us we wanted to mark their existence so they have a little patch in my garden and their Dad made them little markers which I've brought back with me. Do whatever you feel right afterwards, there's no right or wrong way to grieve or do this, be sad, get angry, whatever is right for you and your family, and once again I could not be sorrier for what you're going through. xxx