Need Your Opinion

[KeyleMeyle]

I'm 16, I have a boyfriend, he's also 16. Before we started dating, he was courting me, I asked him if he's sure about me, he said yes. We're dating for a month now, he said he's having second thoughts if what he did was right on entering a relationship. You see, I'm his first girlfriend, so is it alright to stay in our relationship or not?

[LadyCG]

If he wants out, set him free. There'll be no long-term happiness derived from keeping him prisoner.

I say walk away now with a little scratch than later down the line with a deep wound.

[murraymints]

Ditto

[waterboatman]

You're both young. You will both no doubt have many friends, one day you will meet the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. We all go through it. I wish you well for the future.

[johnk]

16 is too soon to make life committments, let him go and move on yourself. It's still OK to be friends though.

[Sqad]

Your relationship is going nowhere, but don't despair as i would have thought that second thoughts come into the majority of relationships, particularly at your age.
Continue the relationship using it as a "learning curve" and developing sexual techniques and counter techniques.

[jno]

no point unless both of you want it. (That goes for first, second and 300th relationships.)

[Old_Geezer]

At 16, stay with a relationship until one of you isn't comfortable with it any more. Discuss and decide between you when to split and form a relationship with another.

[spathiphyllum]

Careful one of you doesn't get "strung along"...

[RainbowRafiki]

If one of or both of you is uncomfortable, I wouldn't stay in it. He might think you're moving too fast? I don't know because I've never been in a relationship.

[tonyav]

Walk away from it, at 16 you most probably have many more relationships ahead of you.

[rowanwitch]

Move on , lots of time, you will meet nice boys/ men and not so nice ones, ones that might make good husbands , some who are more fun. Just wait and see, get to know lots of people, only sleep with the really special ones that you are sure of if you want to. Value yourself and you will have an interesting journey.