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[tiggergirlkr]

Hi Spanner, if you are about please let us know how you got on today.

Hope everything went okay - thinking of you.x

[lilacben]

great minds think alike tiggergirlkr, I have been thinking the same today. Hope everything ok Spanner thinking of you. Brenda x

[PinkFizz]

Same here - thinking of you hun.Let us know how things are.xx

[spanner7853]

hi thank you for your concerns. Unfortunately I miscarried AGAIN on Friday. The hospital were crap dna I am going to write a complaint letter as I dealt with it at home, they didnt want to know. I am so angry with them as it was my last chance of trying and it had taken me a year again to get pregnant. I'm ok as promised myself I wouldnt get too attached. I'm more angry than anything else.

[boobesque]

oh hun, what a horrible thing to happen again, i dont know what to say really.
I really hope you do manage to have a baby when you have greived for the one you lost.
hope you get some answers from the hospital
(((hugs)))

[redcrx]

oh hun,

I dont know what to say to you but want to send you huge gentle ((((((HUGS))))))

Take time to grieve and I wish you all the luck for the future.

[spanner7853]

thanks, anyone ever written a bloody good complaint letter and could give me some pointers i'd be grateful.

[redcrx]

spanner,
try this board if you need to dicsuss with other women in the same position. I know the CL on there (Ambi) and she will welcome you with open arms hun. http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-ukpbmis carry
The ladies on the late loss board have many who have complained to the NHS and may also be able to help. http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-ukpblat eloss
Please take care and seek whatever help is available to you. xx

[helliebobs]

Not much I can offer in the way of consolation but I know everyone on here is thinking of you and sending you best wishes.

All the best spanner xxxx

[lilacben]

Oh Spanner I am really so so sorry for you. I feel as if you was one of my daughters. I was so upset when I read it.My love and thoughts are with you and of course your husband.There are no words I can say to you that will help. Look after yourself. and take care. Brenda xx

[tiggergirlkr]

Spanner,
what can we say? You're in our thoughts and our hearts.

I hope you tell them what you think of the way they turned you away, a couple of weeks ago, and how they kept on making you wait for scans. It's an absolute disgrace.

I know you're thinking positive, and the absolute most respect to you for staying strong. God Blessxx

(p.s. I previously posted to you as morbidstorm on my hubbies log in)

[Pippa68]

Spanner ~ my heart goes out to you..I can sympathise & empathise.

As has already been suggested, there are no specific words I can offer in the way of comfort. Just wanted you to know that you & Mr Spanner are in my thoughts. xx

Take care & rest up.

[spanner7853]

thank you all so much. and thanks for the links redcrx I will have a look. love to you all and lots of hugs xxxxx

[PinkFizz]

Oh Spanner - I don't know what to say to you,I am very upset for you as I know how much this meant.Im sending you a big hug and you know where we all are if you need to talk.Lots of love to you and your hubby.

xxx