sex

[poppyflower]

ok bit of a personal question, but hey !here goes, latley, iv not been in the mood for sex, my bf who i have been with for 5years now, is lovely and i love him with all my heart but iv gone completley OF sex, and dnt get me wrong i enjoy it, but i dont want to do it, im only 21 for gods sake i feel like a 70 yr old, now my bf has begun to notice this and i admit i have been making excuses up, but i really want to get the passion back there because i dnt want to lose him. :-(
aany answers appreciated tia samxxxx

[mnko]

u sound like my partner will be interested to see the replys

[mycats]

I know exactly how you feel, its horrible eh? I went througha stage where if you had said I would never have sex again I wouldnt have cared.
These things come and go, are you stressed or anything? are you really happy?
Try not to worry abnout it, it will come back. I just wanted you to know you are not alone

[redcrx]

how long have been off sex? It happens to most women at times, but any fella worth your affection would be happy to wait. Dont make up excuses, tell him how you are feeling.
Forcing yourself to make love just so you dont lose him is not the answer, it will turn it into a chore and there wont be any enjoyment.

[mnko]

as a man can i ask how long does this last?
as my partner is the same, she says its her body shes not happy with even though she has lost 2 stone and is now the same size she is when we met. This has been going on for more or less the last 2 years, I'm being patient but how long do you have 2 wait. i love her 2 bits and will wait forever but will it last that long?

[poppyflower]

we havnt ad sex since xmas day :( so that long, im actually on my period at the mo so theres nothing i can do about it at this moment in time, is there anyway i can spice things up (if you no what i mean) so i can enjoy it , i feel really guilty and its getting me down,
i dnt think im stressed well i was but i seemed to have got back to my normal self again (well so i thought)
thanks for your answers guys xxxx

[Panic Button]

If you find the answer can you let me know, so I can tell 'er indoors please.

[redcrx]

only you know what you may enjoy so perhaps take a trip into an ann summers shop near you or browse online and see whats available. Some women like more foreplay, some like toys, some like videos and its really just a case of finding out what you may like to try.

[loobie]

Hey hun,

This happened to me while I was with my ex hun. I can't remember how long it lasted but I know it went away eventually. Well until it came back again!! I loved the actual sex but I couldn't be bothered to actually get down to it. As you know, we split up but that wasn't the reason!! Ridiculously though I am so much more up for it now I'm single and not getting it quite so much!! That's not good!! Why don't you try and have a romantic evening, nice meal, have a bath together or something. But talk to him and let him know the problem. That way you can work through it together and not alone. xxx

[wizard69]

what contraception are you using? My partner had the marina coil fitted and that affected her sex drive, though its getting back to normal now, after six months.Might be worth checking with your doctor if it is anything t do with birth control.

[poppyflower]

i have the contreceptive injection which i have recently switched too, you have got me thinking now, because i was on pill, but i was putting a lot of weight on so i switched.xx

[redcrx]

sounds very much like that could be the cause of your problem then.

[Panic Button]

Doesn't sort out 'er indoors though

[ummmm]

Have you tried being really nice to her panic?