Is this marriage worth saving?

[missez]

Is this marriage even worth saving?
I'm 33 he's 32 we're married with 2 kids .separated 3 times ...last 2 times while separated he slept wit my sis. now we're 2gether again and I'm already not feeling good about this.. our personalities are clashing, sex life sucks he's 100lbs overweight been promising to lose weight forever. I'm the same shape as when he met me 15 years ago just 12lbs more from 110 to 122lbs so I may be being a little harsh cuz I dont have to work at it. I miss my ex boyfriend that I was seeing b4 hubby came back and we decided 2 try again I hurt him badly ....hubby seems 2 adore me and becuz of that i feel like crap for feeling this way, we are going to counseling next week...I wonder if a counselor has ever told a couple to get a divorce? it might be us... I dont want to be a person staying married for the kids but I'd hate to break their hearts again...I am a christian and trying to live right is soo hard? Any advice? ...complete honesty is welcomed say what you really think no sugar coating please

[wonderful]

I am really sorry to hear about your situation , but to be honest I dont know why you trying to make it work , you are obviosly very unhappy and I cannot beleive you hubby adores you , when he slept with your sister , I know these affairs happen in some marriges , but when its family thats a different kettle of fish . I also dont know how you can even look at your sister , I would hate her If it was mine , she could of said no , did she not think of you ? it really gets me mad. I know your thinking of kids but if your unhappy they are and they sense it . I hope you can be happy again , please let me know what happens . Hope I have helped a bit for you to think and I have not been too blunt .