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Calicogirl | 19:41 Tue 02nd Apr 2019 | ChatterBank
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I just read this and I was pretty shocked by some of the things people do or keep from their significant others.
My worst is that Mr Cal has this one friend who he thinks is awesome, he loves him to death, thinks he's a really fun guy and treats him like a brother. I hate the sight of him, he's an utter douche, and he hates the sight of me. We are charming with one another and Mr Cal has no idea lol.

Do any of you have things, do things, think things that your significant others have no idea about?

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6877353/Married-people-reveal-brutal-secrets-spouse.html
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She was an under cover policewoman, obviously.
11:22 Wed 03rd Apr 2019
Spath...they aren't secrets. It's just something you don't discuss. Would you like your bedroom activities to be compared to her ex?
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Yeah Spath, but there is a difference between not mentioning something irrelevant perhaps that happened in the past etc to lying to your partner, stealing form your partner, finding your partner crass or unattractive and them thinking nothing is wrong. I would hate that and I'd never do that to anyone, I'd rather hear all the bad as we go along so w have a chance to fix it. x
I mean how would you feel if your Ms found you physically repulsive, or nicked your money and you didn't know- what would be the point in being involved with her?
That's what i'm saying.. I'd have no idea would I
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No you wouldn't know if she was doing tat to you, but you'd know if you were doing that to her. Is there anything you do or don't do that she's unaware of ( that's important obviously). I know Mr Cal would be really upset if he thought I didn't like his friend but he's never asked directly so I aint saying for example :/
"Would you like your bedroom activities to be compared to her ex?"

Only if they helped me up my game lol. Criticism doesn't haven't be negative, but constructive it's good to listen to your partner. But i mean no of course i wouldn't want my partner thinking or comparing me negatively to her ex especially in the chambre.
" Is there anything you do or don't do that she's unaware of"

I'm sometimes private about my finances but i she's aware of that. I don't like discussing money with anyone let alone the Ms. She should live without it being a thought.
It doesn't work like that, Spath.
for you, maybe. and mostly for me also... But it certainly could work like that.
I agree with that, Spath. My OH doesn't know how much money I have, he's never asked though. I don't know how much he earns, I've never asked. I have a fair idea because he employs my nephew and I know how much money my nephew earns....and I know he's on much more than him.
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Lol well no, there is that. I know I don't look as good naked as his significant ex, so I don't need to know what a bomb she was in the sack to add to that obvs, but we do chat generally about sex, like the one girl he slept with who crawled inside the duvet cover before she'd let him touch her, but that was more of a 'What The Funicular, do you know why she did that????' conversation than anything sinister.lol
We're not at all secretive about money, that would be the kiss of death for us.
My Ms has no idea of my weekly income. I have a rough idea of hers but i've never ask'd, she mentioned it. I mentioned i don't like to discuss it, but i let her know i'll inform her if there is ever an issue. When she says "can we get an indian" and i say no, it's expensive, then she knows i'm tight for the week. As you can imagine my wages are not consistent they vary depending on the week.
I'm having a mad, passionate affair at the moment and my husband doesn't know anything about it. Maybe that's cause he passed on a good few years ago!! I'll get my coat!
" crawled inside the duvet cover before she'd let him touch her"

Maybe she was shy or even ashamed of her body.
my OH and I have never had any financial secrets from each other.

(Er, well, not that I know of...)

Other stuff, yes, there's plenty that never comes up from discussion, but if the subject does become important, we always talk.
She was an under cover policewoman, obviously.
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Lol Maggie, glad you're having a nice time :) x

I dunno Spath, he said it really threw him and he felt it was more of a kink of hers than anything else. Nought a queer as folk :/
Agree, jno, talking is really important. He pays for everything but he knows I was left money. He pays for our holidays, I provide the spending money.
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You got a BA for that Douglas :)

Yeah I think talking is key to everything Jno, I'd hate to think he had massive secrets from me, and I'm disinclined to have any from him too x
I don't do anything that needs to be kept a secret. I know others who do though.

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