my friend was in love with me for years and i never slept with him.i actually didn't know until i met the man of my dreams and got engaged.when i told my mate he admitted how he felt and asked me to choose.as i only saw him as a big brother i choose my husband.if he had told me years before things might have been different.we were extremely close even shared the same bed but didn't do anything.it must have been awful for him and we no longer speak because he was a devil and i didn't want trouble but i miss him very much.