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Should I Break Up With My Best Friend?

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vhtx | 05:57 Tue 10th Sep 2019 | Society & Culture
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I have a bff and I cannot see my life without her. a year ago she did something hurtful to me that I just can never let go or trust her again. Long story short I got in a fight at school. Part of the reason i got into the fight was because she twisted my words of what i said to her to this other girl and basically the other girl got mad and confronted me about it. One thing turned into another and it led to me being punched in the face and head several times. I felt so humilated. I basically got beat up in front of the whole school. I confronted my friend by texting her asking her why she would run her mouth about something I never said, to somebody I dont even get along with. But that made her mad she basically called me names and threatned to show up in my house and fight me too. But the part that really broke my heart was when she went on my instagram and posted a comment saying "you got beat up mane" with the laughing emoji. I honestly can forget about her running off her mouth and twisting my words to that girl because maybe it was a misunderstanding. But how could she have the audacity to publicily shame me for being humiliated in front of the whole school like that? We stopped talking for several weeks but then made up. The problem is everytime i look at her I see the same person that back stabbed me emotionally. I just want to know if I am being petty by holding a grudge against her or do I have every right to feel the way I do about her and should I just leave her?
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In the past, we can say that its situation.. now further you can take your own decision based on current situation.
Its not a difficult choice dump her as she is not now, by any definition, a friend. Write off the experience as part of growing up and move on without looking back.
Doesn't sound like a BFF to me.
Probably unwise to assign titles until sure.
Oh babe, how could you ever be true BFF's with someone like that again.
I’d never be friends again with someone who did that. Walk away, you’re worth more than that.
Your name's not Renee by any chance?

That would be kewel.

Just walk away now, she is not your friend.
Vhtx, is nowhere to be seen,I hope she's taken the advice offered
She's no friend - just uses you when it suits her. DUMP her NOW - apologies for shouting but the message must get through.

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