Should Children Under 16 Be Barred From...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.cliffsdoll - I think some people have an addictive personality, maybe its a genetic thing. Or they have problems which they can forget about when they drink so they just keep drinking.
Personally I find it pretty hard to know when enoughs enough if I'm out and having a good time. I'm hoping restraint will come with age! After time I'm bound to realise that the extra drinks won't mean a better time - just a worse hang-over in the morning!
p.s. just like to add that the question isn't about my drinking habits!!
hi cliffsdoll, I had an "alcohol problem" along with a drug problem, a smoking problem, a fighting problem, a too much sex problem, a driving too fast problem and a gambling problem ( don't think I've missed anything. Lol) and it was all just symptomatic of problems that I hadn't addressed.I was using alcohol etc as a prop and a crutch to manage everyday life so I went along in a state of perpetual high/low anger/release to block out the real problems.
As sson as I decided to face these problems head on my need for the dependencies went remarkably easily and I believe this is true for many people with "addictions", they were just symptoms of something deeply wrong and it was up to me to address them. I did that eight years ago and I can now drink merely socially or not at all, it really doesn't bother me either way but I never feel I need alcohol for any reason.
there's a quiz here:
http://alcoholism.about.com/od/problem/a/blquiz1.htm
But really it's an illness that affects some people and not others (like most illnesses). You may have a drink problem that is not alcoholism (like noxlumos). You may be an alcoholic who doesn't drink, like those who've given up. Personally I usually have some wine with my dinner, and a nightcap too, which might suggest I'm alcoholic - but as I can also go without for weeks, I'm clearly not.
I suspect the real issue isn't how much you drink, but how much your drinking limits your ability to lead a normal life; that's when it becomes a problem.