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Thanks folks done it now, and I couldn't care less who owns facebook, Bill Gates or Bill and Ben the flowerpot men (remember them} facebook is the ONLY site that changes settings at THEIR WHIM, is the ONLY site that takes you to a 'new comment' box when you hit the return key instead of going to the next line as NORMAL people want to do, and the ONLY site I know of where you cannot contact a member of admin for help without going via the bloody Kremlin and even then only if your VERY lucky!!