Should A Man Even Try To Find A Girlfriend When He Is This Flawed As An Individual Or Should He Just Stop Trying To Be Safe?

[MM305]

The flaws here consists of the flaws I have mentioned about myself, but there do exists males who possess either some or all of these faults to:

- If that person was known for having airhead/idiotic tendencies,

- Grew up with any speech/mental disabilities or obstacles,

- Does not have the luxuries to live a normal adult life (license, car, job, money, house) and is not able to physically attract folks because of not having these luxuries and no being considered good-looking

- Was never incredibly popular in School because they did not have the skills in any popular major (for example, sports or music),

- Doesn't listen to the music that happens to be considered "the cool thing" for everyone else and instead listens to the music that would get them bullied, and that individual isn't physically and mentally strong and/or capable of defending themselves for any assault

Should he give up his hope of trying to find a girlfriend or does he take the risk?

[woofgang]

Mozz, that advice has been given to this person many times.

[MM305]

Rowanwitch - To answer the question in the first sentence, it’s that the male himself in interested in dating. (Meaning get does want to try to have one). No one is forcing him to have one, he is just genuinely interested in trying to date!

I’m asking if he should try despite his faults or just give up because of his faults?

[Mamyalynne]

He should reread all the advice given, even look for other sites and places to ask and then decide himself.

[MM305]

Thanks Mamyalynne!

Rowanwitch - It’s not excuses if one actually do have these faults and have been rejected because of these faults. Plus, what does “do what makes you happy” means in this situation? Should they risk trying or stop trying to get a girlfriend?

[Canary42]

Stop procrastinating and get help/counselling. DO IT NOW.

[scorpiojo]

Everyone gets rejected at some time, MM. If you don't take a chance, nothing will ever change.

[MM305]

Take a chance at what?

Dating or finding help?

[scorpiojo]

Both, MM. The counselling will help you overcome your negative thinking.

[Mozz71]

Trust me, what you see as a flaw may be a shining positive to someone else. Go online dating maybe? You may be surprised. There are loads of girls who are just as weird as you see yourself to be. Just don't take rejection to heart, it happens to us all.

[MM305]

What will be your advice to not take rejection hard when you live through having daily airheaded/dumb moments?

[MM305]

Meaning that the flaws/faults are constantly being presented no matter how hard they try.

[Mozz71]

Find an air headed girl. You can laugh about your mutual dipsiness together.