Heard earlier that my estranged friend (who also lives v near me) has died. They switched her life support of this afternoon. Her kids are only 16, 14 and 10. Feel so awful for them and had always hoped we’d be able to rekindle our friendship :(
Sherr don’t beat yourself up over your estranged friendship, yes mourn her and feel for her children, we all wish sometimes we could turn the clock back, sadly we can’t,I’m so sorry to hear of your heartbreak tho
Sherr, whilst you might be worried there is prob nothing you can do. If there is a concern about abuse you could contact social services otherwise do NOT feel guilty.
Her parents will look at for the kids, I’m not worried on that score - I just don’t want him adding to the upset.
It’s just such a shock, I’m trying not to dwell but we had such a lot of good times with the kids and drunken times when her husband left and mine was so poorly. My kids are really upset too. It’ll be ok when the shock passes.