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@10.18 As I said she is still able to look after herself, she's been living on her own for 50 years now. Just before Xmas she did have a heart problem and spent 3 weeks in hospital, but yet again, against all the odds is back up and running on two sticks. She did after coming out of hospital have a care package in place, but got rid of them after four days, ( her words) a waste of space! she said she could get up the stairs on two sticks quicker than them, they would come in and wash two cups up, two plates, then sit down with a cup of tea and chat just to kill the 30 mins. No outsiders go in at all, my brother lives the nearest to her so he does for her if needed, other than that she is more than happy to be on her own.