just need a simple anwser from someone who knows

[maggot4life]

I am 23yrs old, in good health, have a Bsc honours degree in business information technology, have an average administration job, I have a girlfriend in australia and we have been talking on the computer and the phone for 1 year now, we have not physically met yet, can anybody please please! tell me how i can get out there permanatley just the visa step by step process and if so does anybody know if i can get married on a working holiday visa?...

i have done research on the official migration website i just need to get some more info

many thanx

[handygran]

If you haven't met her yet, go for a holiday first to see if you get on. You can't tell from talking on the phone & computer. Don't rush into anything, you may regret it. You are intelligent and young enough, so take your time.

[maggot4life]

we are in love tho aww nice name 'handygran* r u someones gran btw...

anyways i know wat ure sayn i just wana be with her so badly we have been speaking for like 5 hours a day everyday and well i even got her an engagment ring and everything i knw things are different in real life but i guess we trust eachother alot, im not that young i know wei love someone and i know shes the one...any more ideas?

[handygran]

Just take it steady then. yes I am a gran, I have a 7yr old grandaughter and always on call if they need me. Couldn't think of anything else as a name.

[maggot4life]

aww how sweet i wish i had a gran mine passed away, btw i knw its rude 2 ask a lady her age but how old r u? and well i knw its not gona be something u wana discuss just that i wana know

[handygran]

Ive just had my 60th birthday. Sorry you haven't got a gran. I love being one , I adore her, we do lots of things together. I do hope you find happiness with this girl. I have 2 sons and I will give my life as long as they are happy.

[maggot4life]

i wish my mum wud say forget the money u can sell the house we own 2gether and go live ure love...i mean my mum has her own place this new place is a burden on me and its like a ball and chain around my leg..


60! thats nothing ure still a girl hehe honest thats young, well im glad u told me thanx i feel 60 today with all my stress ud think i was 60 and u were the one in ure 20's lol..anyways thank u so much i think i wil find happieness will come 2 me, it is all abt wat i do 2 get it, nothing 2 do with fate its abt making an effort and i will have 2 make a major effort

[handygran]

I don't feel 60 (may look it) . I always think whatever happens to you you have to put on a smile and get on with things. This isn't getting you anywhere with your question but I do hope you get sorted and get to Australia if thats where you want to be. Good Luck. Let us know how you get on.

[filthiestfis]

Sorry to interrupt man, you know, I wish you luck and all, but seriously, you must go to Australia and spend some time with her before you decide that she is the one. Look, it sounds perfect over the phone and internet, im just saying that you need to know this person....in person!

[maggot4life]

nah ure alrite thanx for the input i will take ure advice on board

[lastchance]

yes it is best for you to go and see her and the area you plan to live, i am in the process of arranging a fiancee visa myself so only know how to get someome into Uk, but i am sure it will not be much different. While you are there you need to collect proof that you where together and also anyproof that you communicating afterwards. whatever you do do not be tempted to overstay your visit, there will be a website somewhere about Australian fiance/e visas usually the quickest way, you have to prove that this is not a marriage just for visa into country.