Have You Ever Turned Down A Date Out Of Fear Of Failure/Drama?

[MM305]

Could be because you get the sense that you or that other person isn’t good enough for each other, or cause you get the sense it’s gonna end really badly (especially if it’s a good friend that you fear will end because you two dating ended up being a disaster).

Have you ever turned down a date or relationship offer out of that fear?

[waterboatman]

No. Why would you?

[MM305]

The description shall explain why one might.

But thanks for answering.

[rowanwitch]

Many times, I have a good sense about people and my spidey senses have often given me the message walk away now........

[waterboatman]

I can understand that. I have, however, been on a date and wished I hadn't. But that's how one finds out, isn't it!

[Old_Geezer]

No.

[Mexican18]

What are'spidey' senses?

[woofgang]

I have turned down dates because I didn't want to go but not for any other reason.

[Robinia]

Almost, out of fear and disbelief. After few words of wisdom from someone I went for it....and thank heaven I did.

[Old_Geezer]

Anyone unaware of Spidey senses are not a fan of Spiderman ;-)

[rowanwitch]

The sixth sense that something doesn't seem right... Probably subconscious awareness of body language or intonation

[Zacs-Master]

It’s a good idea to look at the OP’s other questions. Just to give this one some ‘context’.

[rowanwitch]

No need for drama, be yourself relax and learn to communicate

[Mexican18]

Thanks Rowan witch. Never come across it. A day when you don't learn something is a day wasted!
Very good,O.G.

[MM305]

Rowanwitch, the drama might not come from you trying to cause it on purpose to be mean.

It can be a situation where you are being yourself, but it turns your date off because they can’t stand your faults and gives you crap about it....it can also be a situation where your date just happens where your date just happens to causes it without noticing it, or does but feels like he has to.

Either way, my point being is that drama is not a thing that your are purposely trying to cause, but can happen for many other reasons that are out of your control. Hence, why one can have that fear of drama to where they will turn down a date/relationship offer to not risk it happening.