I want to be fanciable again !

[Dollie]

We're middle aged, and frankly we've both become a bit boring- so what can we do to inject a little oomph back into our marriage ?? Doll x

[Dollie]

OOoooh WM - you cheeky begger - actually there a few dogging sites around our town. I'm game but the old git would want to stay in and watch Taggert instead.

[B00]

Urgh rofl, you'd seriously go watch some slapper and her rough BF doin' it in a car?

[dudda]

try to listen to modern music as well as not dressing like alan partridge ie dont wear tight drain pipe style jeans rebox classic trainers and zip up fleese tops with aviator sunglasses. and say stuff like aahaa. ruddy fantastic. and always be up for a laugh. and stay out later once you start being cool you will become cool.. think like you thought back when you was my age ime 26 by the way.. i like me vintage but dont wanna be it if you get me. take david bowie for instant he did really good music when he was young now he forgotten what coool is... as for women all women are sexy to men especially if you pay an intrest in movies computers music electricals mainly.. i dont get women you can read about mr darcy an lt wickham in books as wellas heafcliff and think they all sexey what you think they do in their spare time wait around to be written about. they men thats probley one of many days that where not like every other blokes.. hay maybe ime too young to understand its like religon to me getting old a little is itntresting but too much leads to trouble when you forgett the meaning of religion as you forget the meaning of why you together there more to life than sex i love it my self but i also like to have fun in other ways with my partner.. that arte more on a friend level,, hope my rambling made sense or even helped..

[Dollie]

Gee - well errr thanks Dudda (I think) I will certainly start to think 'cool' and who knows I may even become cool - cheers. Doll xx

[saintjohnny]

May I just be the first to echo the young gentleman's comments above?

[newtron]

go sky diving!

[Dollie]

Always have WM - he's my ere - bless him !

[tomtech]

shag somebody else. it works wonders. you either realise what you were missing or you appreciate that what you had wasnt that bad after all. but either way it does tend to liven things up a bit. by the way i am now divorced and lost my home, my car, and none of my family speaks to me any more.

[Dollie]

Thanks for advice tomtech but don't think I can do that. This is my third marriage - I ruined both the others by having affairs - got my figers burnt and lived to regret it. But thanks anyway. Sorry to hear about your dilemma now, but I suppose the only way is up for you from now on. Good Luck. Doll x

[tomtech]

i was only messin dollie. i know what its like when it becomes boring. how about taking some right dirty pictures of each other and post them on the net. the thought of loads of people looking at them is quite a turn on. i could of course check them out first if required.

[dudda]

i wasnt commenting on his apperence.. it was his musical talent . he was really good as ziggy stardust. ashes to ashes. life on mars major tom. then he got older and forgot what being young was i dont want that to happen to me but you cant stop time ..