I have sensitive corneas and contacts are a non starter
sedative - I would try something shorter than valium - (take it on the first of the month and you are still feeling glooby on the 31st) if you can get it - Midaz sprints to mind.
and no there is no interaction
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/j.1365-2044.1983.tb12227.x
is VERY technical but basically says Valium is used as a premed and doesnt do diddly squat to pressures.
I have no idea why Anne A has got her whip out and is flailing or who she is flailing at - but hey this is AB!