Need Advice

[miahmoon]

So my friend has been hanging out with other people rather than us, our original friend group. it’s been a week and she always chooses them and barley talks to us anymore. i just want to know if this is temporary or forever because i feel like the 2nd choice, and that they are more important than me. she only texts us when she needs us. i don’t know if i should confront her or not or if i am just being dramatic

[bobbinwales]

friendships change throughout are lives. Most of my 'friends' from school we drifted away from each other and have no desire to meet up again. New friends are made at diffrent stages. Some stay with us, some change as we change and move on

[Mamyalynne]

Friendships ebb and flow when you are young, leave it for a while and she may return to your group.

[tiggerblue10]

As you keep referring to 'us' I take it you mean that you have other close friends other than her. I would just stick with them and not focus on the other one. If she doesn't attempt to contact any of you then you'll know one way or the other.

[Patsy33]

Do not confront her. She has her reasons. Just be civil and get on with your life. You may find after a while, she will come back to be in your company. Best wishes.

[Atheist]

Are you in love with him/her? Why are you asking people like us who know nothing about you or your friends?
You say that she doesn't talk much to you (your group) any more; but then you seem to worry that you (not your group) are perhaps putting them off. I think maybe you are too sensitive and think it's all about you, and that it's your fault that she ignores your group. I doubt it's all about you, it's probably just a thing that's happening - people change friends and alliances and likes...
Are you upset about this particular girl? I remember being very upset when I was young and someone seemed not to like me any more. I'm guessing that you are quite young. You have a big life ahead of you.
The rest of your group seem to still be friends with you. If you want this girl to be a special friend to you, then all you can do is hope that there is something there. If there isn't, then it's best to realise that, and accept that that girl is not the right person to give your love and affection to.
I wish you well. and I am sure that you will find the one you deserve in time.

[Paigntonian]

You don't need to confront her. A gentle word and a smile while you're asking a simple question will be fine.

[dance2trance]

Ditch and ignore her she is not worth the bother. You are being being ditched by her anyway so tear her to pieces. Cause some real pain now get your own back it is Christmas and Jesus wants you to do it.