18th birthday

[sunflower89]

my 18th birthday is coming up and im really stuck as what to do, the problem is i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but his dad and my uncle dont get on and my brother and his brother dont get on, i want to have a party but dont no how to work around it without hurting anyone. and i no its my day and they shouldnt ruin it but...
has anyone any ideas? thanks

[redcrx]

perfect excuse for 2 celebrations. Have a get together with all of your boyfriends family if you want but also have your proper party with all your friends and family around you. Its your party so you dont have to invite your boyfriends family if you feel it will spoil it.

[sunflower89]

any ideas on what kind of party? its in feb so it will be cold!?

[claireyfairy]

Just get your mates together and have a night out. then have a meal with your family and your fella so you don't have to invite his folks. If his folks want to do something for you then leave that up to them.

[Gilly : )]

Hi their for my friends birthday she had a fancy dress and everyone recieved a invertation with the theme on which was 70's it made it that much better everyone one had a laugth at each other and you found people that didnt really now each other found it easyier to speak to each other.