I wondered if there was a way to trace who is trying to contact/pair with your phone under a bluetooth handle - reason i ask is i have been harrassed by next door neighbour and police have been involved, if this guy so much as tries to contact me he will be arrested, and i think a short time ago he has been trying to contact me through bluetooth, i have now turned off my phones visability - if its him I have to contact the police asap....
I think this has a simple answer...if you turn off your phones visibility and only use it when you need to...you wont have this problem...you answered your own question really.
As for other issues you may be encountering like other forms of harrassment, I suggest you ask the police to issue a harrassment warning to your neighbour. Ask your local officer or go to the police station. If they eventually do issue a warning..he may be arrestable if he does it again.