Is This A Normal Relationship Or Does He Just Want Sex?

[JinxedMayhem]

My friend is dating a guy that she met randomly on the street that out of no where came up to her and started talking to her.
He buys her loads of clothes and stuff but seems to be very controlling of her. When he is around she has to take him everywhere that she goes even when she has her friends round to spend time with her.

Me and her friends have seem to notice that he gets jealous a lot and think people are trying to take her away from him. Which might be effects of the weed and drugs that he is taking along with a load of medication for his health.

Other than that she see's him every weekend and she told me that they have sex twice every week and tells me that they ain't using protection as he stated he doesn't like them and she doesn't even take any contraception.
I feel that she is letting him do what he wants with her every weekend with her and using her for sex.
What makes me uneasy is that they did and do things that should be done in private in the same room as people.

[eve1974]

//ain't using protection as he stated he doesn't like them and she doesn't even take any contraception// withdrawal method? Rhythm method - not foolproof but hey its a choice (esp if they Catholic)

[JinxedMayhem]

he also gets in her face whilst arguing

[eve1974]

//I feel that she is letting him do what he wants with her every weekend //. mahhhhn I can't remember when last I had that problem **sigh**

[JinxedMayhem]

so are you basically saying their relationship is just normal average ? what are you getting at exactly.

[jno]

their relationship is not normal, it is verging on the abusive. But I think you have guessed this already.

[anneasquith]

Ooft, this ‘ relationship’ has everything you would read in a soft porn book .

[dave50]

What on earth does she see in him, is she really that desperate? Tell her to get out now while she can.