nasty boyfriend

[name8]

has any one any advice on how to get a very nasty boyfriend out of there system?iv been with him for 4 years and have a baby with him,ive never done anything bad to him,never cheated or bad mouthed him yet he constantly accuses me of doing such things.he tells me his apatetic toward me and couldnt care less,yet every now and again he makes me feel loved what ccaan i do?

[crete]

why are you still with him get rid of him pronto.

[name8]

i dont know why it hasnt been that that easy.before i got with him id never stand for any of the stuff he puts me through,for instance he cheated on me while i was pregnant and broke me cheek bone when i confronted him about it

[crete]

if you are genuine and who knows on this site why are you allowing yourself to be treated in that way for the sake of you and your baby get out of the relationship and dont tell me its difficult most things in life are difficult but no one need put up with crap from men anymore there are agencies who will assist .

[Orangesauce1]

I can only tell you what you already know and that is that you must break away from him. It will hurt so much at first as you do hang on to the hope he loves you and he will change!

Darling if you having a baby with him has not changed him then do you really think anything else will?

Let go of that hope and it will only hurt for a little while then you will find someone that really loves you. Trust me they are out there ( alot of them) you just need to open your eyes and move on.

I hope you take the above as intended. Best of luck with everything xxxx

[boink]

ouch, if your in a possition to do so, id run, you obviously realise your not in a good situation when your asking, so you pretty much know the answer to your question, and it sounds like he has serious self esteem issues if he's treating you like that

[name8]

i tryed to get away last year when our baby was a few months old,but he took her from me and threatend to run me over if i contacted the police.the only way i could get her back was to be with him.i used to so happy

[crete]

you contact social services or womens aid , do you have any family who could assist you?

[Orangesauce1]

Name!!! they are empty threats you will have to get through this .... he is a sad selfish shallow person if he needs to keep you with him by threatening you and holding you prisoner!!! seek help

http://www.womensaid.org.uk/

Try the above, you have options

[name8]

thankyoou,i know what i have to do

[crete]

well done orangesauce,keep your fingers crossed

[crete]

name8 let us know how things work out good luck

[RATTER15]

Guys like that are better off with a bullet in the head, I would volunteer but I got a partner to think about!!

[TheTemptress]

believe me, he will get worse. i work quite closely with womens aid and their clients....its a long road, most women do stay ... please get away, some day you will be settled and happy and look back at this and wonder why you waited so long. dont confuse love with being owned...he will chip away, a little bit at a time so you wont even notice. ...please please do something.

[pickalily]

Thinking of you-be strong and try and follow orange's advice.xx

[name8]

well i had my first night without him.just to find him on my sofa this morning.im going to go strait out today though with my kids,as i feel just that little bit stronger today,and i dont want it taken from me.x

[pickalily]

Hope you have a good day .Take carex

[name8]

well iv had a nice day!!!!my children benifited from retail therapy!!i did see my ex while i was out,he called me but i just carried on!!!yeay to me xxxxthankyou you lot!!!xxxxx

[pickalily]

Just to say Hi x