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Mamya I didn't mean that to sound the way you read it.
I was wondering who pays the return charge as I know if I were to collect it and return it , then I would, so I was wondering if they would take that out of the refund which doesn't bother me at all, just thought that's what they would do.
I can still collect and return myself if that is the correct thing to do.
Apart from changing my mind about it, I've already returned something to this seller, and I just feel a bit embarrassed to return another item.
I had no intention of abusing the system.