Should His Ex Wife Be Paying For Their Daughters Dress And Sons Suit For Our Wedding?

[Ilovecats22]

I mean we can send them a colour swatch/ material swatch and they can whatever they think is right. I feel we shouldn't have to since we have many other expenses.

[jno]

not really a matter of "should" - as far as I'm concerned, everyone "should" sort out their own clothes - but if they offer and you're happy with it, why not? Are you happy with it?

[TheWinner]

No.

[bednobs]

There is no should or must about it. Its whatever you can negotiate so that you walk away probably both a little bit unhappy! Who buys their clothes normally?

[bednobs]

if you are sending swatches, IMO it means you want a say in what they wear. If you want a say, you have to pay

[Bobbisox1]

Not a good start if there’s nit picking over such trivialities

[tonyav]

Is this a wind up ?

[cashier]

They're his children as well, how old are these children? Your husband to be should pay at least half if they are youngish.

[pastafreak]

Are the daughter and son in the wedding party? I can't think of any other reason you'd be sending fabric swatches.

[tomus42]

Assuming they're children, the parents should pay. Both parents.