Should I Of Told My Husband's Ex He Had A Drug Problem?

[Selfishnoodles]

Husband has 3 kids with two other women and 4 with me, he had a drug problem when he was with his last partner and then he got with me. We have been together 12 years now and he's had a drug problem still the entire time but lied to his ex's about it. I obviously knew but now Im getting backlash off one of his baby momma's saying I should of told her as she was handing her kids over to an active drug addict. I was just keeping my husband's privacy though, was I wrong?

[dave50]

Have told, not of told.

[Bobbisox1]

Baby momma?? Madness!

[pastafreak]

For what's it's worth...yes, you should have told the other mother.
Like my comment on your long thread, put yourself in the other mothers shoes...wouldn't you want to know? Every mum wants to know her children are in safe hands...or should do!

[Selfishnoodles]

Time to confess- I am not his wife- I am the mother of the two sweet and beautiful abandoned children. My ex tells me that my friends agree with me because they're my friends so I thought I'd try a bunch of strangers instead. I posted as his wife using her arguments from our emails (tbf she did word them very politely) to diminish the potential of any further bias from people responding. I have been completely fair in my descriptions and this situation is 100% genuine unfortunately. I apologise for the misrepresentations but I felt it was a good way to get total honesty. Your answers were gratefully received and I appreciate them all good or bad. I've tried explaining to his wife why her behaviour has been cruel but she is not interested in listening to me tbh but that's fine. Thanks again!!

[RandyMarsh]

Wow, what a twist

[Selfishnoodles]

Hahahaha!!