I Need Advise On How To Deal With Frenemies On Facebook

[queenoftheworld]

I discovered who blocked me from their news feed on Facebook. It exposed who my frenemies are . I have two Facebook friends I took off Facebook years ago, because of how they treated me. Years later they sent me a friend request and I accepted. Also they said some kind words to me, and thought everything was cool. When they blocked me from their newsfeed, it revealed to me that they were hiding something and gave me the impression they had assassinated my character behind my back. My one frenemy , I added her back a couple of weeks ago and we talked on the phone. She also requested my son’s Facebook, and I accepted. I go on my son’s Facebook all the time, he is under the age of 18. I noticed her post on his news feed and wondered why I don’t see it on my news feed. It had me thinking why I don’t see some of my other Facebook buddies post. I did some investigating and to add someone to your favorites , go to friends then click on the 3 dots. I noticed some of my Facebook buddies I couldn’t do it to, including the recent frenemy, I added a couple of weeks ago. So I went on my son’s Facebook and noticed I could add her to favorites. I was upset , almost lost my composure. Instead I sent a post saying that I was going to put everyone on snooze for 30 days, to send me a message . I am taking this time to get my life in order , clear my head. I am a Christian I know better than to get revenge. I still haven’t decided what I am going to do. I would like advise.

[carrot99]

How about delete your Facebook account? You don't need the aggravation. At first I thought you were a young teenager but you're an adult woman with a son. Facebook friends, Facebook buddies, frenemies - none of that is real. Your life is with your son, family and friends. Cut Facebook off if it's giving you grief.

[JimF]

Couldn't agree more!

Delete your Facebook account. You are an adult, right?

[bobbie22]

Why not pack Facebook in? Do you really need it?

[davebro]

Just join the thousands who are ditching facebook (meta) in favour of real relationships. It's toxic.

[MrsCheese]

These people are not your friends, you have clearly learnt this now so just remove and block them from your friend list and your sons friend list nd move on with your life.

[douglas9401]

The technology improves day by day but still can't do paragraphs.

[Peter Pedant]

you should get out more

[aelmpvw]

08.34 :-)

[calmck]

You have been given the best advice. Close your account and actually meet friends and talk with them. Don't use your phones when meeting. What is wrong with actually talking to someone. Personally I would like restaurants to ban phones being used at tables and shops etc not serve people at tills who are using their phones