bf saying i need lose weight

[stylinsam]

last night my bf told me that i had put weight on and dont get me wrong he didnt say it nasty in any way!! but is he trying to tell me to lose weight or is he just stating that iv put weight on??

[PinkFizz]

Im sure all you gorgeous girls will soon meet the man or your dreams! Before you all get splinters ,lol

[teag1rl]

I'm getting quite comfy on this ere shelf-tis great cos I cant reach my mobile phone!!
Sam I'm sure your boy wasnt being nasty but they just dont think do they?!!

[4getmenot]

Personally I'd rather my bloke told me I was getting big. They cant win if they say you're putting on a bit of weight love its an insult, if they don�t tell ya, when you�re all fat its why didn�t you tell me I was getting fat :-)
and teag1rl we gotta get ourselves some of that no more nails coz everytime I move one way we keep tilting.

[WendyS]

Well, have you put on a lot of weight and does it suit you (or not?).

If it doesn't suit you or he's concerned about the health aspects I guess you should be grateful that somebody has the courage to be honest with you in the hope that you'll do something about it.