step children

[packmalp1]

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My step daughter now has she is getting older is the real problem. Over the last year she has been telling lies to her mum that I have been horrible and saying nasty things to her.

Unfortunatley because my husbands ex does not like me, she goes along with it and rings up and starts ranting and raving at my husband..telling him that the children don't even love him .

We took the children on holiday last week, and his daughter started trouble yet again. Totally spoilt our holiday, wouldn't speak to me.. and was totally dis respectful. I feel really hurt as I have always looked after and treated her well. I now no longer want her in my home. Has anyone any advice as this cannot continue. I won't stop my husband seeing the children, but feel totally let down with all the lies, and worried it could get out of hand. many thanks

[packmalp1]

Thanks zzxxee,

There's absolutely no way that mediation would be an option at all. Firstly husbands ex, would not agree to mediation for the financial matters when they had to be sorted, saying it's not anyone else business and ended up costing us thousands, when mediation would have been under £500 and totally free for my husbands ex.

Also every time my husband tries to sort things out with his ex, as soon as my name is mentioned... she always says it's got nothing to f****ing to do with her (charming).

It would a fantastic idea if we could all sit sown together, but that is an ideal situation, which in this instance is not going to happen...unfortunately!!

Thank you so much for your advice and help though x

[Dee_Jay]

If possible make an arrangement that your husband visits his children instead of the children coming over to visit him.