Have you got a secret past?

[fatmanlevi04]

I am 33 female and married use a name that hopefully no one recognises on here, I have been married 3 years but het what a past lived with another woman for 4 years yes I suppose as a lesbian. I put it down to a very sad unhappy first marriage (daft and young at 22), am now a regional manager driving a gorgeous but expensive BMW, have a stepson who is 17 (nearly), but whoah I don't look back in anger but laugh because been there worn the t. shirt and guys only me knows xxxx

[fatmanlevi04]

Thanks Mcfluff, youre a gem xx

[mccfluff]

been there got a t-shirt not one as vivid as yours but can understand xx mail me anytime [email protected]

[PinkFizz]

wow,very similar story to myself,except I dont have the BMW now! I was beaten up by my ex and my family tried and tried to get me to leave him,but I kept on forgiving him.Finally after 5 years I saw sense and now have a wonderful boyfriend who I have been with for 2 years.Unfortunately,my family lost patience with me and now they barely give me the time of day,but I live in hope.
A wonderful story - good for you hun.xx

[janetsflower]

I don't think you are being materialistic because i too have been there. I was married to an abusive violent man who hit me and our baby. The day he smashed my baby's head against the wall was the day i realised we had to get out before it was too late. We were left with nothing, he saw to that and its not easy being a single mum with no confidence and constant fear of what he will do next. But i found strength i neve knew i had, i had to for the sake of my child and i dragged myself up got a better job, raised my child with no support from his father or anyone else and now 10 years on i am re-married to the most wonderful man in the world, we live in a fantastic house (with the mortgage to match however) and I drive an audi TT, my husband has a BMW. The car and the house do make you feel like you have achieved something, even though they come at a cost, because when you have been down there, in the gutter, at rock bottom they seem as achievable as reaching the stars. So no I don't think you are being materialistic but unless they can empathise with the situation fully people on the outside always will. And on top of all of that i don't regret any of what has happened to me because i wholly believe its made me a better, stronger person and without those dreadful experiences i wouldn't appreciate what i have now the way i do and I am sure thats the way you feel too so good for you

[CrazyDaisy80]

I do agree with you that turning your Life around is absolutely fantastic and I really admire you!! But please don't knock driving Ambulances as that is what I do Part Time and I love driving them!!!!!!

[China Doll]

Fatman my love... I still have a secret life! Lol! There's lots of things in my past that I wouldn't particularly like to discuss but I'm naturally a very cagey person. Good on you for getting out tho and well done for being a success xx

[PinkFizz]

Oooh China - bet Ive got the most secret past - would soooo love to tell - but I can't!!

[Pippa68]

I have been there, done that..blah blah blah. I had it all (yes, a BMW) but lost it all to divorce. I guess that makes me a loser..but I am happier now than I have ever been in my life. That council house is still only just around the corner for me...

[Pippa68]

Sorry..forgot to answer the actual Q!!!

No, I don't have a secret past ~ my life is an open book :o)

[China Doll]

Pinky, you can tell me anything babes.... I'm intrigued... get my email address off Posy xx

[PinkFizz]

Im sure I have your email add somewhere China - let me check!

[China Doll]

Doubt it babes, I never gave it out!

[fatmanlevi04]

Wow I am astounded at how many lovely and also sad answers I have received, thankyou all of you and congratulations to the ones who got away, those still suffering get the hell out of there, also thanks to the lady who has the Auditt and Mcfluff you are sweeter by the day bless you my msn is [email protected] (corny I know, lol) xx

[fatmanlevi04]

Has every one left???

[TheTemptress]

just caught up with this post tonight...some great gals out there aint there....ive been very blessed....peace V

[fatmanlevi04]

Chri st are all of these questions banned , who can not get a life and post their own or lose the banning finger