Could I Be Pregnant?

[Fairytalexx]

Hi I’m
A woman age 45 and in early stages of menopause so my period s haven’t been regular for the past 12 months I had sex with someone I was seeing mid April who told me he had the snip I had a light period few weeks after but today 12th of June iv had no period since I’m feeling terrible like I’m
About to start my period but nothing actually happening I feel sick but not actually being sick got discharge hot flushes headache and slow ache in my stomach and feel very bloated x wonder cud I be pregnant or just the manopuse im worried sick and honestly to scared to take a test any advice wud be greatly appreciated thank u x

[naomi24]

What benefit is there is not doing a test? You're either pregnant or you're not. You're going to find out eventually - the sooner the better in my opinion.

[bobbinwales]

A tests much reliable than the guesses of strangers on a website

[tiggerblue10]

You're going to have to bite the bullet and take a test. Then you'll know one way or the other.

What outcome are you scared of?

[Prudie]

I know it must be terrifying but you must take a test. If you leave it much longer your options are diminished. Your symptoms seem more likely pregnant than menopause to me but that doesn't mean you are.

[pastafreak]

Read this...then definitely seek medical advice. Take a test...sooner not later.

https://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/guide-perimenopause

[Redhelen72]

Yes you could be pregnant
No you are not pregnant
Take a test

[Hopkirk]

Well spotted, Canary.

[Captain2]

Presumably you have spoken to the man and he has confirmed he hasn't had the snip?

[Peter Pedant]

and the team says- - - take a test
simples.

What you say is OK - you are beginning the change and the irregularity makes it difficult to tell whether it is early pregnancy or not

either a test of cast the runes....

[Sqad]

I am sure that you are not pregnant, but take a test.

My main concern is that your symptoms may be nothing to do with pregnancy or the menopause.

See your GP.

[gulliver1]

It's nothing to do with me.

[Maydup]

I doubt you’re pregnant due to him having had the snip and you being irregular. The symptoms could be anything so do a test and when you see negative you will feel better and you can take it from there.