guys pls help

[milo1978]

I have just got together with the most amazing guy who im totally mad about! I cant believe my luck!

BUT im way more sexually experinced than him, this doesnt bother me at all but i do however want him to learn and im more than happy to teach-how do I bring this up without offending him?

We havent actually slept together yet but he has given some big hints that he's worried he'll be a total flop-bless him, I want to reassure him that it makes no difference to me and teaching him will be loadsa fun!

Any ideas on how to go about this boys? We're in our mid 20's, Thanks

[dot.hawkes]

just go with the flow,

[I-say]

Dont worry about it. Just have a good time.

[wonderwoman1]

just do what comes naturally....enjoy!!

[milo1978]

oh yeah i will do but i want to ahve a good time-if you get my meaning!

This is totally alien to me, all my previous boyfs were confident in the bedroom despite being to$$ers, how do you say what you want/dont want without hurting their feelings? Thats the last thing I want to do

[Trotbot]

He may be saying that so you are pleasently suprised when the moment arrives, although most guys are nervous first time, particularly when there is a strong attraction. Do not try coaching him first time, never mention what anyone else has done and and don't make a big deal over it.

If he is not hitting the spot, make suggestions, take a little bit more control over timing and try a position things happen a little more slowly

[Pisceangirl]

Say things like..."I like that", "keep doing that", "I love it when you do this"...just spend lots of time warming up (u know what I mean!) and trying lots of fun stuff together. Kissing and cuddling a lot at first will get you both comfortable with being intimate with eachother, then just get more and more adventurous as you go along...in my experience from having 2 ex BF's who were very inexperienced lovers, they are the best for soaking up sexual information- tell them you like something and they usually make a point of doing it next time. They were very eager to please and listened a lot to what turned me on...they (separately mind- 2 years apart! Haha!) were actually the best lovers in the end and sex with them was fool proof, if you know what I mean....every time! heheheh! ;)