right bit of a funny Q but, next year me and my bf are planning to go on holiday, the thing is. he doesnt like flying and the only way hel go abroad is on a ferry!! (and i hate the sea!!) so thats that one out of the Q but he doesnt mind staying in this country whereas i like going somewhere hot and getting a tan!!??
take the channel tunnel and get yourself on the train over to the south of france - it might take a while but you can stop along the way for a night or two to break the journey up a bit (might not actually that all that long).
:-) No seriously lots to do there too and loads of sports stuff ideal for you coz you want to get fit. If not go where you boyf wants to then have a late deal sun holiday with your mates later in the year. :-)
the train, yes - either Eurostar and then hook up to the vast European rail network that will get you pretty well anywhere this side of Vladivostok, or Le Shuttle, drive off at Calais and then head wherever you like.
Incidentally, channel crossings by boat don't take long and are less constricting than planes - it might be easier for you to cure yourself than him, if you want to.
Just as a post-script to jno's last point - if you do decide to brave the sea and take a car I'd try Speed Ferries. Dover-Boulogne, high-speed catamaran ferry, 55 mins crossing time, easy & flexible online booking. http://www.speedferries.com/