Am I Being Paranoid

[abbeyleigh]

This guy I'm meant to be going out with this week I haven't heard from him since this morning I know he been busy with work and seemed really but I haven't heard from him this evening am I being paranoid by wondering why?

[Buenchico]

Maybe things have changed since my day but, actually, I doubt it.

Back in the days when I was 'dating', if a young man said to a young woman (or vice versa) on, say, a Saturday night, "I'll meet you on the steps of the City Hall at 7 o'clock next Friday", that would be when they would next have any contact. They wouldn't expect to phone each other, or to meet each other, in the meantime.

A 'date' is just that: a date in one's diary. It's NOT a 'relationship'. (It's only when two people have fallen madly in love that they might reasonably expect to be in almost constant contact with each other).

Give the guy some space. If he really wants to go out with you, he'll still be at the appointed place, at the appointed time anyway.

[barry1010]

You haven't heard from him for a few hours? Just how often do you expect him to contact you?

[smurfchops]

Don’t bother him, let him come to you. And if he doesn’t, he’s not interested. Move on.

[abbeyleigh]

Thank you he did come to me after

[smurfchops]

Abbey don’t run after him …. Treat them mean, keep them keen :)

[barry1010]

Smurf, those games never worked with me. A real turn-off