update: partner spending day with ex!!

[madham]

Lynneylou - He has since come back from holiday and admitted when they got back from their lunch date they had a kiss and a cuddle, he said he doesn't want her and didn't know why he did it but needless to say I have told him it's over, he keeps texting and calling begging to be forgiven but no way I am absolutely gutted, but I have my self respect in tact.

Original thread -
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion293075.html

[RATTER15]

Well done!!

[madham]

It's not really any consolation, but thank you Ratter15

[PinkFizz]

awww,I really feel for you.I would be devastated if that happened to me - you don't deserve it,

[madham]

Pinkfizz - all sympathy is greatly received as I am feeling very sorry for myself. But I will get over it and as in original message better now than him doing it in 6 months. Also he didn't meet my Son properly only when he picked me up or dropped me off so I think it is for the best. I truly believe also that everything happens for a reason.

[sassenach]

Oh dear, I guess you were right after all with your suspicions. Sorry to hear that and you have done the right thing.

[madham]

Sassenach - It's harder not seeing him than getting over what he has done, but I know it's the right thing and time heals everything. Thank you for your advice though.