I’m Paranoid

[Greesseee]

Hello I have an issue and I would really appreciate advice with.

My business has grown massively this year. From 5 figures to 8 in ten months.

The problem is some women are approaching me which is rare and I have become paranoid they do not actually love me but the money. I have tried to over come this by asking women out myself and even when they say yes I sabotage it by thoughts like “maybe they have heard of me or noticed something about me money related”

Do you have any advice to overcome this?

[davebro]

Yes - get over yourself & stop being paranoid.

[sandyRoe]

I think you'll just have to learn to live with this problem. The richer you are the more attractive you'll become.
Few of us have the experience to offer advice.

[Peter Pedant]

women stopped throwing themselves at me years ago

[sandyRoe]

As long as they don't start throwing things at you, PP.

[DTCwordfan]

Become bisexual and go out with men - double the pleasure as such.

[DTCwordfan]

more seriously keep things conservative as to venues as in don't flash the cash or the Black Amex card - and don't talk about the success of your business....not to begin with so that you get to know whoever first - and then only reveal after a few dates are under the table. Anyway, you should be asking them the questions to explore their interests/personalities as it is far from being about you, you, you.

[gulliver1]

DTC @ 10.48 Well done , now you are free.

[Ken4155]

Delusions of grandeur

[Vicasso]

It will pass. Women are now attracted to me like bees to a magnet.

[bednobs]

"Few of us have the experience to offer advice"
oi, speak for yourself sandy!

[Ken4155]

Have a word with yourself, Sandy. I'll bet the Irish lassies were banging your door down after your success on WWTBAM :-))

[NYAD]

IF your story is true, then no, you are not paranoid. It's too bad you didn't find someone special before your success, then you would know you could trust her. But, you can't go back. Just don't get too serious until you have invested enough time (not money) in a relationship. And, if friends or family warn you that there's something not right about someone, listen to them. They loved you before you were successful.

[Arksided]

Ladies like to find security... especially when they're young just starting out in life. So pleased that your business has started making you a lot of money.

So what are you doing later honeybun... ? don't keep me waiting.

Hetrosexual male Yorkshire Xx