I Have A Monster In Law, Do You?

[Rica1122]

How can i get help when dealing with a monster in law from hell.

She knows no bounderies & Feels as though she's the H.B.I.C

When I am in fact the wife?

How can i respect her role as the mother when she can't respect mines as the wife?

please help, This is new for me.

Please keep as rude comments to yourself.

Thanks

[barry1010]

No idea what a HBIC is

[bednobs]

head witch in charge

[jno]

does she live with you? Or far away?

[Rica1122]

she lives far, but very intrusive

[smurfchops]

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1832318.html

[Ringlet]

// Please keep as rude comments to yourself.//

Isn't that a rude comment?

[Neveracrossword]

Is 'This is new for me' true when you asked for advice months ago?

[nailedit]

My son has the mother in law from hell.
She's currently dying but he still does the best he can.
She has mental health issues and he reconises that...

[Rica1122]

@neveracrossed- Please SHUT UP
I am very flattered that your a fan, PLease how ever grow up,

whatever post i made wasn't for me, This one is & i asked for help or advice for this matter.

you can kindly keep moving & answer other questions.

If you would like to answer mine, please answer without all the nonsense.

[Rica1122]

To everyone else thank you kindly :)

It means alot.

[Neveracrossword]

Rica1122, I hope you - and any others - get all the help you need and want.

[Rica1122]

@neveracrossword- Thank you!

see I knew you had it in you! Have a great day. :)

[bookbinder]

Talk it over with her. Have a face-to-face discussion, and - before you begin - make sure that you have all your points lined up, so that the mother-in-law can't suddenly catch you unawares.

[Neveracrossword]

Rica1122, thanks - your posts show how big an issue this 'monster' seems to be for you, arousing strong feelings etc. I hope your life soon takes a turn for the better.

[Rica1122]

Update: so I spoke with my "Monster in law"
We are both the same sign & we are from to totally diffrent worlds.
However, Things were address, Apologies were made & Now I have a "Mother In Law".

Thank you to everyone that gave great advice.

:)