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Am I A Masochist?
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Hi, so I’m a 25 year old male, I’ve never had a girlfriend or even kissed a female, so obviously I’m a virgin. I do have a normal sex drive and am attracted to females, however, I’ve never had any experience with women at all. When I think of spending my life being a virgin and not ever having a partner there is a part of me that thinks it will be hard but then there’s this other side to me that feels this joy about it, like I’m getting mental gratification about the fact that I’m kind of punishing myself by making myself stay single and celibate even though my natural body wants it. I’m wondering if I’m a masochist?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.You just need a change of attitude. Go join a social group, get inolved in activities, take a dep breath and start smalltalk conversation with those of the female persuasion. When you've got to know them for a short time (not immediately) try asking one or two (not at the same time) if they'd like to go out for a drink sometime. See how things go, and don't expect success every time.
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try not to dwell on it, just take life as it comes, and you will meet someone.... no point in trying to punish yourself
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try not to dwell on it, just take life as it comes, and you will meet someone.... no point in trying to punish yourself