Partner on adult friend finder

[jedimistress]

I found my partner of 3 years has registered on the website above. Looking for sex chat and email. Well, should I take this as the end of our relationship, or his curiosity or what? I don't know what to do, but I wont confront him about it as I want to monitor it, even sign up myself and make contact to see what happens. I donlt know. My mind is spinning. Is this cheating?

[dizydosydoll]

I would have to.. even though it may very well be creating a situation although to me it is potentially there.
The fact that you dont live together means that you cant check his computer regular and to be honest you dont wont to be doing that anyway it will drive you mad trust me. I had a problem after having my son our sex life was nil and he was watching porn all the time instead of making the effort with me and i would check the computer all the time and it was just getting ridiculous, he would lie to my face that he wasn't and I knew he was and the history would be deleted so if you confront him he can deny and delete the history all the time however you do have his password i suppose. I would really try and find out if he his cappable of cheating call me a bunny boiler if you want....but you need to know and if he is devious another to get on one of these sites behind your back then why shouldn't you.

[WaldoMcFroog]

If someone is so dumb that they didn't delete their history, they can hardly be upset if someone else found it. I use history all the time just to find short cuts to things I know I accessed earlier in the day etc, so there shouldn't be any arguments about snooping.

You need to bring it up, IMO. If you don't you'll let it stew and stew and even if it is nothing, you'll not be able to let it go.

[RogerMellie]

Tricky one this...as a bloke who is online a lot, I often get spammed by this particular website, who's usual mail contains photos of 'kinkykate from (insert your home town here) is online now and looking for fun'...a few clicks on this and you find yourself at their sign-up page.

So, out of curiousity that that buxom barmaid from the local or the quite type from the office might actually be on there, what does our intrepid hero do - signs up in the hope of seeing someone we know/recognise in a state of undress!

Myself and a friend discussed this and took the bait, registered, and found that indeed all the adult friends who wanted finding were either trogladites or hookers trading behind a thin veil of online dating respectability!

There may be more to it than that, but just don't discount the prospect that he might just have been curious and registered to see what was going on.

Of course, if you find he has his own profile and states all manner of weird and wonderful sexual predilections, you may need a face to face chat!

Hope that helps....

[RATTER15]

Why not put his details on here so we can all contact him??