What Do I Say To This Man?

[abbeylee90]

This man I've mentioned from dogs home told me I'm general conversation he going out for lunch later to this pub and I asked had I been before he said happy to take but I never want to go anymore do I reply to that? 

[abbeylee90]

He came down mainly to see a dog he use to walk yes I want to turn my life around and like I said I haven't met with him since he stopped coming that was last year 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, didn't you meet  him earlier this month... when you posted the original question? And I'm sure you've told us before about you 'happening to mention' something or making a little joke so you obviously kept some sort of contact going. When you said you 'haven't met with him ... since last year', did you mean you haven't been anywhere with him since then?  

[abbeylee90]

No I haven't arranged to meet up with him just turned up down dogs home.

[Vagus]

Dyou know what, abbey, there's so much dreadful stuff going on in the world, these problems of yours pale into insignificance, do what you like, decide for yourself, make your own decisions.

Thats my first, last and only contribution to these ridiculous questions 🤷‍♀️

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you've had loads of advice and often ignore it. Decide for yourself whether the man is creepy, decide for yourself whether you're going to have any more chats, conversations. 

[abbeylee90]

He messages me now and again like some of the other volunteers about general things but not meet up. I'm there for the dogs not him

[Neveracrossword]

Ok.

[scorpiojo]

You have had hundreds of replies to your questions about this man, and still you keep asking. Make your own mind up.

[abbeylee90]

He knows I'll say no to going out with him

[scorpiojo]

Then stop saying he's making you uncomfortable, and making out he's some kind of stalker or creep, and tell him what you said to us..

//Well real reason I feel uncomfortable and I should be going out with someone who I'm actually seeing and feel like I'll be single forever hanging out with him all the time//

[ynnafymmi]

How did you get on with your fork-lift driving test,abbey?

[Barsel]

ynnafymmi The question isn't about that. We've moved on from there.

 

[abbeylee90]

Been extended as I have a work trial next week

[Barsel]

Or, perhaps not.

[jourdain2]

Do you ever read the news Abbey?  Real news I mean, like people shot dead in a concert hall in Moscow; men, women and children suffering and starving all over the world; people suffering from cancer when young (like the Princess of Wales) - you know the stuff I mean --- the REAL problems of life and  not your overthinking of normal, small decisions of life?

If you don't then I suggest that you start to read the news about the state the  world is in - not just the colour of the latest nail-varnish.  You may decide to sort your life out, accept advice you have been given and consider yourself fortunate in many ways.

I thought you'd already concluded that this man is not for you, so ignore him and stick  to your decision, rather than going on about it.  You'll find life less complicated, I promise.

[ynnafymmi]

@20.24.There is no harm in asking Barsel.abbey herself did say it would take place round about now.