If you said to me that unlike me you had a son who was alive and lovely and kind to you I would be so happy for you! You see right there is the difference between us! I am genuinely happy for those who have not had to go through what I have been through. You don't seem to be able to feel happy for anyone, just angry at everyone. Go pour yourself a whiskey. I am not going to pander to your attacks anymore.
Hgrove, please accept my apologies for hijacking this thread.