Am I Right To Be Offended?

[abbeylee90]

My friend who's hen party I went to a few weeks ago. They told me it was an enclosed wedding but she invited other friends obviously one was maid of honour and invited the other one who came to hen night a few others I know from where I use to work unless her husband invited them but I feel quite hurt that I wasn't invited or even tp the party.

[naomi24]

Forget it, abbey.  You've done the right thing and congratulated her.  The ball is in her court now.  Don't think about it any more.

[abbeylee90]

Yeah she didn't even comment back when I congratulated her

[calmck]

Abbey enough about this now. It's over and done with. Move on

[abbeylee90]

Yeah I just not going to bother arranging to meet up at Xmas 

[calmck]

But you are still fretting and keeping this thread going.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, move on, move on - you don't half cling on to these things!

[bednobs]

Expect an update on a few days that the person hasn't commented on abbey's congratulations post. After all she's only told us 3 times already

[abbeylee90]

No she hasn't and doubt she will now.

[newmodarmy]

I'll check back in a few days.

[naomi24]

Abbey, She's not fretting like you are.  I told you ages ago - choose your friends - don't let people choose you and just pick you up and drop you when it suits them.  People like that are just using you.  Move on and make arrangements to see your other friends at Christmas.  In short sod her.  Get tough abbey.

[abbeylee90]

Hopefully in my next job I will meet new friends.

[Neveracrossword]

...you'vce been in Selco for a while, have you made lots of new friends there?

[newmodarmy]

Perhaps all the advice to forget it/let it go has not been taken on board as you are clearly still keen to keep this topic alive.

[abbeylee90]

I have but we go out on leaving dos/Christmas parties

[newmodarmy]

What about the one you were holding hands with after a night out? And didn't you like one of the drivers?

[abbeylee90]

That's the one yet still comes in now and again. Guess next time will be out is if someone leaves.

[DDIL]

Wasn't the hand holder married?

[calmck]

This hás Ben going on for almost a month. Move on Abbey. Invite her if you want but dont come and moan to us if she turns you down. Its almost Christmas and a New Year is fast approaching. Why not make a resolution to solve your problems yourself and then let us know your decision rather than ask what to do and ignore all advice given

[abbeylee90]

Yes he's married meant nothing. I'm out tomorrow and New years eve.

[abbeylee90]

I even said congratulations to her on thier photo and she didn't even reply which I find so rude.