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I look at my life and think, that compared to other people, i am lucky.
I have a good man, but I also want to be part of a 'family unit' again which is very important to me. He seems to be quite happy to be on his own. What worries me though, is what happens if he gets ill or can't look after himself.....which hopefully is a long way off yet....i want to be there for those reasons. I don;t want to be living between two houses, which is what I am doing now.