Had one about 4 hours ago with my little sis about the state of her love life. She has a fab new guy but has trouble shaking off the cling-on she used to see. I can see it all clearly but she can't see it - I really shouted at her over the phone but we have spoken just and everything is OK now.
I'm just brutal at articulating myself in a row so tend not to argue at all. I just simmer slowly and drive myself mad. I look at TV programmes where people argue and long to be like them!! I think being able to argue comfortably is a gift!