It's clear to me that children of an impressionable age should be given a very intense lecture once a week on what they should and should not be listening to. A little girl of 9 should be well versed in everything from Billie Holiday to Napalm Death, and be able to put forward cogent arguments about the enforced sterilisation of anyone who listens to Euro-trance or commercial R'nB. With an absence of supprot from the wider public though, I will have to tone down my revolution.
Female role models, that's the way forward. Even Madonna and Lily Allen's alright really. Get her on Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Howling Bells, and Cansei de Ser Sexei.
Failing that turn her into a goth or emo kid. They always come round eventually.