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relationship advice needed
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Hello all - please bear with me on this one.
Over summer I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me. (we have been going out for 2 and a bit years, we lived together for 1.5 yrs and be have talked about our future and the possibility of marraige / kids etc, everything seemed rosey and good).
Anyway, we broke up over it, but we have remained friendly. Now she has come back to me saying she has been an idiot and made a mistake, and she wants to be with me. Now I really did love her, and I still have really strong feelings. The thing is can I trust her again, and would I be being a fool to get back together with her.
I really thought we would be together forever, so i'm not sure what to do - I have very mixed feelings.
Now the confusion - I have meet someone else. We have only had one date, but we have had fun and have a laugh together. I don't know if it has a future, but she is a sweet girl.
I guess the question is should I go back to what I know, and what I still have very strong feelings for - or - should I move on, and try to build a new relationship and get on with my life?
Cheers for listening - I guess I needed to get this off my chest - any advice is greatfully recieved
Over summer I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me. (we have been going out for 2 and a bit years, we lived together for 1.5 yrs and be have talked about our future and the possibility of marraige / kids etc, everything seemed rosey and good).
Anyway, we broke up over it, but we have remained friendly. Now she has come back to me saying she has been an idiot and made a mistake, and she wants to be with me. Now I really did love her, and I still have really strong feelings. The thing is can I trust her again, and would I be being a fool to get back together with her.
I really thought we would be together forever, so i'm not sure what to do - I have very mixed feelings.
Now the confusion - I have meet someone else. We have only had one date, but we have had fun and have a laugh together. I don't know if it has a future, but she is a sweet girl.
I guess the question is should I go back to what I know, and what I still have very strong feelings for - or - should I move on, and try to build a new relationship and get on with my life?
Cheers for listening - I guess I needed to get this off my chest - any advice is greatfully recieved
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