Hmmm, peterbar. You will be surprised how much help is actually available to her. I understand the solicitor advising her to stay there, but if its unbearable then she needs to leave. I am not sure if the house is in both names, but if it really is that bad, then maybe she should just cut her losses. Regarding the abuse, she can just inform the police and get an injunction out on him. By rights, SHE can get him kicked out of the house, but its all a messy process. Tell her to speak to the citizens advice bureau too. I know how proud she must feel, but she may have to go through a rough patch and stay in a hostel. She will need your support too, even though she may say she doesnt...