My girlfriend is Pregnant

[Patrick19]

I have known my girlfriend for 3-4 months. She has recently fell pregnant. I adore her to pieces, I care for her immensely and I tell her this all the time. I am not sure if she is convinced or not. She did a test a few nights ago and it showed two lines, one was a mild strip. I was over the moon and very happy and she kind of cried, but I cuddled her. She has been upset about this as I found out tonight and we ended up crying. I cried the worst as she told me she wanted to split and have an abortion. I with and beyond words, literally, wanted a baby. It's broken my heart so much that I am feeling between happy and gutted. I wish we could make this up. I don't want to lose her. Please help me, I want to have the baby with her.

[purplehair]

She's probably feeling confused right now seeing as you only found a few nights ago. You both need to discuss this and let each other know how you feel. :-)

[TheTemptress]

i agree with purplehair. she is protecting herself...human nature....she really needs time to think and research..let her know and give space...but i have to say, you must also respect the fact that she may feel entirely different to you as you do to her. you sound very caring which will reallly help her but dont pressure her either. we all need that control over our lives...even in this situation. you havent been together long enough really to be in the best position...good luck and keep us posted...x

[badgerchops]

Hi, firstly she is lucky to have you as you sound very considerate to her. Has she told her family yet that she is pregnant? She will be going though a range of emotions and probably very confused as itr is a new relationship. I would take her out somewhere neutral and calming this evening to talk. you must listen to her though and keep calm. Dont pressurise her but do tell her that you will support her either way. Don't be afraid to tell her that you are behind her and would like the baby but understand it needs both of you being 100%

Good luck x

[stumpgrinder]

you have really got to stop eating the the ******* crackers fatty