lost twins

[stoodley]

has any1 lost twins?

[redcrx]

sorry to hear about the loss of your twins. I havnt experienced a loss but can recommend some great boards on ivillage. I have many friends on the parenting boards who have suffered loss and have gone on to have babies.
there are a few that may help you:
trying to conceive after loss http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-ukpbttc al

coping with miscarriage http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-ukpbmis carry (the CL ambientbreeze is a good friend of mine)

late loss and neonatal death http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/iv-ukpblat eloss

I hope you can find people with similar experiences on those and people who can also advise you on the cervical stitch procedure as well.

[spudqueen]

Sorry to hear of your loss.

My friend lost twins many years ago, they were born prematurely and died at two days old. It took her seven years to get pregnant again (I'm not suggesting it will be the same for you!) but when she did she had a cervical stitch. That pregnancy went fine and she had a little girl, just a few months later she was pregnant again, again had a stitch and had a little boy, who although he was six weeks early was fine.

Good luck.

[ummmm]

stoodley.....I didn't see these questions when I answered your other one. If I had I would have answered with much more sensitivity. I'm very sorry.

[marley2000]

my mum miscarried twins and i think it has stayed with her since. however it never made her give up and she has had children since. and if it weren't for her being in her mid fifties she would have many morexxx hope you are coping ok and im so, so sorry for your lossxxx

[alicekrige]

Yes.....we lost twins during pregnancy 3 years ago. In fact last week would have been their 3rd birthday.

My twins will always be with me in my heart and my soul. We planted a miniature rose called sweet dreams in our garden and I go to them often.

There are many sites out there dedicated to infant loss and support. Babycentre has some fantastic loss boards.

After I lost my twins, I went on to have another little girl who is now 2. Very soon after we lost them but right for us at the time.

I wanted to send you both big hugs...it is not easy. My heart will be with you at this difficult time.

xx