Getting an ex out of your head

[Amiira]

My relationship with my long term partner has ended. Been on going problem with me asking for help on here. (sorry) But I still cant stop thinking about him. I know its finished. Know he does not want to be with me. How can I get through a day without thinking about him? I truely feel pathetic :(

[ummmm]

awww bless you. It's hard, i know I'm going through it as well. Time is the best healer. I don't know what your life is like but I'm being kept occupied by my family at the moment. You will think about them less and less as time goes on!

[raysparx1]

Amiira,

You are far from pathetic,you can't just erase somebody from your memory,if only it were that easy, but it doesn't work like that,time will heal the wounds but all that has happened is what makes you, you, good,bad,happy or sad, just take it one day at the time,love will come your way again,in the meantime if you need to cry,cry, if you want to talk, talk, if you want to talk to me you can get me on my e-mail, I will allways reply, Ray xx

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[Amiira]

ummmm, its tough is'nt it? I have family and work to keep me occupied. But in the quieter times, like now. Its difficult. I hope you are OK. And thank you for replying.xx

Ray, you have helped me out before on my ongoing relationship dilema! Thank you again for your help. I may email you if you dont mind. You always offer good advice. Maybe a kick up the backside is all I need xx

[raysparx1]

Amiira, mail me any time you like, I will reply, I am off to bed now,but write anytime,sleep well, Ray xx

[ummmm]

It takes a long time....this is [email protected]'s nice to be miserable together!

[888sally888]

Corny but time is a healer. I have been heartbroken in the past beyond belief but can look back now with no feelings whatsoever. You will be fine x

[dee5]

I know exactly how your feeling i split up with my fiance two weeks ago and we had been together nearly two years and so far he has called me nearly everyday to see if im ok. And he tends to call just when i have stopped thinking about him and i am feeling positive with moving on with my life. I feel quite pathetic aswell as he has moved on and got a new girlfriend and i seem to be stuck indoors thikning about what could have been.

[starry eyes]

Been there and got the t-shirt!! I know exactly how you feel. I was with my fiance for 4 years. The wedding booked, honeymoon booked, had a mortgage together ect ect. 9 months before the wedding he decides to tell me hes in love with someone else (whos he'd only just met!) anyways, it hurt lie mad. i thought my life was over. But time is a VERY good healer. a year down the line, i am the happiest i have ever been. still single but am having the time of my life. He did me the biggest favour ever, and give it time and im youl feel the same way as me. keep smiling hun, it WILL get better x x

[Amiira]

Thank you all for taking the time to reply. ummmm, I hope you are feeling OK today. I actually feel a lot better than I did yesterday. Will send you my email address.

Sally, thank you. xx

dee, your ex has a girlfriend already and its only been 2 weeks since you parted! Dont spend your time thinking about what could of been. Its wrong of him to keep ringing you. Try to be unavailable. No chance of my ex ringing. But I would now ignore any contact from him. I wish you lots of luck xx

starry eyes, didnt know how to respond to your experience. How you can be so positive now is pretty amazing..
it must of been a horrendous time for you. I hope you continue to be this happy and wish you lots of luck xx

Here's to all us girls. Moving on, stronger and wiser!