3rd question (so dont ban me please)

[Miss-read]

Getting relationship thing out of my system in one go. I cant see myself meeting anyone else in the future. As I dont have much of a social life (got children to look after) work in an office entirely with women (older than me) so no social scene there.

Am at a loss really :(

[Hellion]

Have a look in the library to see if there are any local social nights for people in a similar situation. There's one or two near where I live so I'm sure there must be some near you. My husband and I own a classic sportscar and I always maintain I'd look for the second Mr Hellion at a classic car show - there are always some nice single/divorced fellas there and they seem to be handy at fixing cars too!
Failing finding a suitable group why not start one?

[mattie]

How about joining a gym that has creche facilities/kids clubs.